Your Life is made up of your daily decisions. Sure-coating (minimizing the reality of a situation) reduces clarity and judgement. It never helps you and others make better decisions.
Rather, it hinders good decisions because you never fully address the reality of a situation.
What’s the alternative? CANDOR.
Candor is Honesty with Skill. And true Candor requires both.
Honesty without Skill is rude and insensitive.
Skill without Honesty lacks clarity and truth.
It takes both to maintain trust in the relationship and make great decisions.